EPISODE #093
Why Loving Well Is the Hardest — and Only — Thing That Brings You Peace
WITH
Ester Munt-Brooks
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Show Notes
In this episode, Catholic educator Ester Munt-Brooks returns for a deeply honest conversation about what it really means to love — not as a feeling, but as a decision. From her years as a free-spirited musician in Spain who wanted nothing to do with commitment, to becoming a daily communicant, devoted wife, and mother of three, Ester unpacks what shifted — and why it took so long to look in the right place.
We’ll walk you through:
✅ Why the women you’re comparing yourself to might actually be leading you away from peace
✅ What St. Thomas Aquinas can teach us about emotions, free will, and why love is never “just a feeling”
✅ How staying home with her children felt both wrong to her intellect and completely right in her heart — at the same time
✅ Why putting your children first might quietly be destroying your marriage
✅ The small, unsexy acts of love that bring warm feelings back when they’ve gone cold
✅ Why original sin was — at its root — a trust problem. And why yours probably is too
✅ What it means to be both a strong woman and a receptive one — and why you don’t have to choose
Whether you’re a high-achieving woman who’s starting to feel the weight of all that striving, a wife who has slowly drifted from her husband somewhere between school drop-offs and career deadlines, or someone who has always kept faith at arm’s length — Ester speaks your language. Because she used to speak it too.
🔔 Remember: Peace is not the absence of chaos. It’s the sign that you’re finally loving in the right direction.
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🌐 Website: https://fevaloryalegria.org
📱 Instagram: @faithwithjoytalks
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