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Broken Promises in Marriage – Betrayal #10
There are certain wounds in marriage that go far beyond ordinary conflict. But broken promises cut much deeper. Why?
When Marriage Starts to Feel Unfair – Betrayal #9
There comes a point in many marriages when one person looks around the house and thinks, “How did all this become my responsibility?”
Selfishness – Betrayal #8
Selfishness in marriage does not always look obvious. So it is worth asking yourself: where am I withholding? Where could I contribute more?
Disrespect – Betrayal #7
How does a simple eye roll escalate an ordinary conversation into a full-blown argument?
Mismatched Sexual Drives in Marriage – Betrayal #6
There is a form of betrayal in marriage that is often ignored for far too long, and it does not always come with obvious conflict.
Knocked, But No One Was Home – Absenteeism – Betrayal #5
Often, what we observe isn’t a deficiency in capacity to love but rather a habitual response pattern that hasn’t been critically examined.
Make Your Partner a Priority – Betrayal #4
In What Makes Love Last?, Dr. John Gottman describes ten ways partners betray one another. The fourth is forming a coalition against your partner.
When Shame Leads Us Away Instead of Home
For Christians, we are in the midst of Holy Week, as tomorrow begins the Triduum - that is, Holy Thursday, Good Friday, Holy Saturday, and Easter Sunday. Therefore, I am breaking from our series on 10 Ways to Deceive Your Spouse to discuss Judas and Peter’s...
Dishonesty Is Not Kindness – Betrayal #3
Dishonesty is a form of self-protection, not an expression of love, and it gradually and often imperceptibly chips away at trust.