Your Needs, My Expertise
You can work with me in two different ways:
- Individuals and Couples
- The Course in Conjugal Love
Discover which path suits your current season of life.
“Marriage is a school of love, not an escape from suffering. Forgiveness is the daily practice by which love is tested, purified, and made perfect.”
Familiaris Consortio (John Paul II, 1981)
Individuals
In my sessions, I enjoy exploring 12 core pillars that reflect the four key areas of life, all of which require dedication and discipline. Each pillar highlights aspects of life that our culture sometimes overlooks. These pillars cover four key dimensions: the body, the mind, emotional well-being, and moral values.
As you glimpse over the four dimensions, are you called to explore one more than the others?
The Twelve Pillars
Body
- Diet — Your body is a sacred temple.
- Movement — Strength and confidence are built, not wished for.
- Sleep — Your daily Sabbath, the rhythm that restores.
Emotional Life
- Friendship — Communion with others, the joy of shared life.
- Family — The Holy Family as our model of love and order.
- Charity — Acts of service and kindness that shape the heart.
Moral Values
- Planning — Looking forward with purpose, focus, and choosing order over chaos.
- Society — Living with justice and peace, conforming to the good.
- Death — The final meeting: Are you ready?
Mind
- Adventure — Travel, novelty, exploration of the world and self.
- Finances — Charity and provision, learning to steward well.
- Skills — Lifelong learning and growth through practice.
Couples
If you are having difficulty in your relationship, it starts with you. Therefore, I prefer to see each person individually rather than a couple. I strongly encourage my couples to take my 10-month Course in Conjugal Love while receiving individual counselling.
A Course in Conjugal Love
An affordable, comprehensive online program for couples to follow together or individually.
Investment
- Initial consultation (90-minute session) $270.00 CAD
- Follow-up (50-minute session) $175.00 CAD
- 3-month commitment (50-minute sessions) $160.00 CAD per session
- Course in Conjugal Love $140.00 CAD
If you would like to work with me, you should be aware that I take my work very seriously. I want to help you change the way you view your role in life. This requires your time, your energy, and your resources because real formation involves sacrifice. You and I are both giving our time to one another. Let’s make it count.
Initial Consultation
Start your journey with clarity. Book your initial consultation.
Follow-up Consultation
Ready for the next step? Schedule your follow-up and keep the clarity flowing.
Luella has given me a gift of clearly seeing myself and the world around me. Before regularly meeting with Dr. Jonk, I was in a fog of imposter syndrome, mediocrity, and the comfort of what I was currently experiencing. Even though that meant being comfortable in a toxic relationship and work environment. Our work challenged me to take responsibility for my part in being stuck and breaking down the barriers I have created for my own potential to be nurtured. With her support, I was able to connect with my true self and get back to a place where I could recognize myself in the mirror, make decisions with confidence, and take power back through discovering my feminine energy. Regulating my emotions and being able to express them in a healthy, thoughtful way gave me access to joy again. Her regular check-ins and texts gave me moments of pause. A chance to reboot and be in the moment and feel in the moment, not to live in the past or future, but to really appreciate the here and now and live it without apology. Her thoughtful storytelling allowed me to relate to what I was experiencing and apply tangible ways to get through hard conversations, emotions, and connect in meaningful ways to be heard. Her weekly coaching sessions really allowed me to lean into consistency and strength through a very difficult time in my life. The skills she has helped form in me continue to carry me through low days and hard seasons. She truly is passionate about helping her clients, and I would recommend her wholeheartedly. Thank you, Luella, for your insight, care, and compassion.