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Luella’s pened thoughts on topics relating to emotional fullfillment and personal achievement. New posts weekly.
When Self-Reflection Stops Being Helpful
Everyone who comes into my office has good intentions. Typically, they seek to become better individuals, live more fulfilling lives, or enhance their relationships.
What Makes a Good Family?
On December 28th, we observed the feast of the Holy Family, so I thought it fitting to write a post to reflect more on family. I would love to ask all my subscribers this question to see how you would respond. What, to you, makes a good family? First, let me take a...
Looking Ahead to a Wider Conversation
As this year comes to an end, I’m not thinking much about resolutions. What I’m noticing, instead, is that life feels more precious than it once did.
When Emotional Needs Become the Measure of a Marriage
Before I start, I want to be upfront—this isn't a typical light or seasonal post. However, it's an important message that I felt it was right to share now. Christmas often brings families together emotionally and physically, even when underlying issues are present....
What to Do When Your Partner Shuts Down
Communication breakdowns in marriage are often imagined as loud arguments or harsh words. In reality, many of the most unsettling moments are quiet ones.
How to Respond When Something Feels Off in Your Marriage
When you sense that something may have upset your spouse, it is common to hesitate before asking about it.
Finding Peace When Life Pulls You in All Directions
I have given much thought to why so many of us feel scattered. We function. We work. We organize. We parent. Yet inside, we feel as if we are being pulled in directions that exhaust us.
Bringing Order Back to the Home through One Simple Ritual
Despite any drawbacks, having your children under your roof has a significant benefit
Watch and Pray: The Willing Spirit and the Weak Flesh
“Watch and pray that you may not enter into temptation; the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.” — Matthew 26:41 Do you recognize this scripture passage? These are the words Christ addressed to the disciples, who were told to ‘stay awake and alert’ while...